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If your child is homosexual
Parents, who discover that their child is homosexual, often do not know how to act. It’s difficult to reconcile to the fact that your son or your daughter is unusual.
• What should you do if your child is gay?
• How does the person come to the conclusion that he is camp?
• How should you react on his behavior?
Is it fine if children get information about homosexuality?
According to the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality (USA), there are millions of homosexual people all over the world. Such factors as geographic location, nationality and level of economic development don’t affect human sexual orientation. About 10 per cent of World’s people are homosexual. But you shouldn’t be scared, because the majority of them are latent, they even don’t realize their homosexuality. Those, who are sure about their homo orientation, try not to differ from others.
How do people become homosexual?
The majority of scientists can’t give the answer to this question. But all of them are sure that every person is bisexual at the beginning of his life. It means that probabilities of having in future homosexual and heterosexual relationships are equal. It’s proved that the first child’s sexual emotional experience affects much future orientation.
We can often hear that camps rob the cradle. Do they try to drive children at homosexuality?
The answer is: NO.
More than 90 per cent of rape cases were performed by men against girls. The majority of forceful rapes towards boys were performed by male ex-convicts, who endured punishment for sexual abuse towards women. In most cases homosexuals are not interested in children as well as heterosexuals. It happens, because many inverts had an experience of driving them at heterosexuals. Nobody can be hetero or homosexual at someone’s desire. Homosexuals identify themselves with view that children should be protected from any kind of violence.
Are homosexuals blamed for buggery?
So called “buggery acts” are against having anal sex, which, by the way, are performed by 2/3 of heterosexuals. But these acts are only against homosexuals. Today many legal organizations try to withdraw those acts, which restrain sexual behavior of two partners. Legal experts consider that it’s up to each couple to choose how to behave. The only condition is doing it of their own free will. The state has nothing to do with someone’s bedroom.
Will your child become homosexual after having homosexual experience?
Teen-agers often experiment and try to modify their sex life. Nobody has proved that such experiences somehow affect human orientation. That’s why experts advise parents not to pay attention to child’s homosexual experience.
How can you define whether you child is homosexual or natural?
In fact, you can’t define it. There is a misconception that boys with female habits and girls with mannish ways are potential homosexuals. But, frankly speaking, this statement is ungrounded.
What should you do after you child confesses his or her homosexuality?
Don’t you start asking him whether he or she is sure in his choice. You also shouldn’t take him to psychiatrist. You certainly wouldn’t do it if he confesses in his heterosexuality, would you? You should understand that it’s a rather difficult period both for you and your child. It’s a period, when he should get onto himself and get rig of many myths and stereotypes about homosexuality. That’s why if he has confessed he or she is rather sure about his orientation.