If your child is homosexual

Parents, who discover that their child is homosexual, often do not know how to act. Its difficult to reconcile to the fact that your son or your daughter is unusual.
What should you do if your child is gay?
How does the person come to the conclusion that he is camp?
How should you react on his behavior?

Is it fine if children get information about homosexuality?

According to the Institute for Advanced Study of Human Sexuality (USA), there are millions of homosexual people all over the world. Such factors as geographic location, nationality and level of economic development dont affect human sexual orientation. About 10 per cent of Worlds people are homosexual. But you shouldnt be scared, because the majority of them are latent, they even dont realize their homosexuality. Those, who are sure about their homo orientation, try not to differ from others.

How do people become homosexual?

The majority of scientists cant give the answer to this question. But all of them are sure that every person is bisexual at the beginning of his life. It means that probabilities of having in future homosexual and heterosexual relationships are equal. Its proved that the first childs sexual emotional experience affects much future orientation.

We can often hear that camps rob the cradle. Do they try to drive children at homosexuality?

The answer is: NO.
More than 90 per cent of rape cases were performed by men against girls. The majority of forceful rapes towards boys were performed by male ex-convicts, who endured punishment for sexual abuse towards women. In most cases homosexuals are not interested in children as well as heterosexuals. It happens, because many inverts had an experience of driving them at heterosexuals. Nobody can be hetero or homosexual at someones desire. Homosexuals identify themselves with view that children should be protected from any kind of violence.

Are homosexuals blamed for buggery?

So called buggery acts are against having anal sex, which, by the way, are performed by 2/3 of heterosexuals. But these acts are only against homosexuals. Today many legal organizations try to withdraw those acts, which restrain sexual behavior of two partners. Legal experts consider that its up to each couple to choose how to behave. The only condition is doing it of their own free will. The state has nothing to do with someones bedroom.

Will your child become homosexual after having homosexual experience?

Teen-agers often experiment and try to modify their sex life. Nobody has proved that such experiences somehow affect human orientation. Thats why experts advise parents not to pay attention to childs homosexual experience.

How can you define whether you child is homosexual or natural?

In fact, you cant define it. There is a misconception that boys with female habits and girls with mannish ways are potential homosexuals. But, frankly speaking, this statement is ungrounded.

What should you do after you child confesses his or her homosexuality?

Dont you start asking him whether he or she is sure in his choice. You also shouldnt take him to psychiatrist. You certainly wouldnt do it if he confesses in his heterosexuality, would you? You should understand that its a rather difficult period both for you and your child. Its a period, when he should get onto himself and get rig of many myths and stereotypes about homosexuality. Thats why if he has confessed he or she is rather sure about his orientation.