Sex tips
What can two women do in a bed?
There are many things which women can do in bed. For instance, they can kiss, caress each other and use sex toys. They can perform oral or anal sex. They can enjoy fisting or tribadism. Actually, they can get pleasure in different ways. They need only beloved partner and good fantasy to perform this.
But if you are going to have lesbian sex for the first time, youd better begin with something simple. This doesnt mean that you will get less pleasure. Sometimes common petting gives more satisfaction than anything else. In fact, many women are afraid of having sexwith a woman for the first time. They feel a little embarrassed, especially if a partner is an experienced one. Of course, its difficult to overcome ones fears completely. Although, try to pull oneself together and do not be afraid to do something wrong.
There is nothing bad or good in sexif you and you partner really get pleasure of it. Moreover, each woman is unique and its difficult to say what exactly can arouse her. Thats why the experience doesnt play a great role. You partner is in the same boat with you. There is no occasion for alarm.
Here are some tips which can help you to relax and be more confident:
1. Try to relax yourself and your partner. The first time shouldnt be performed in a hurry. Of course, there are many advantages in having quick sex, but its better to put it off.
2. You should communicate while having sex. Its believed that partners can easily understand each other without any words. But this statement is unlikely to be true. Sometimes, its not enough to have a good intuition and high sensitivity. You can achieve full understanding, but it requires time. Thats why you should ask your partner questions and observe her reaction. Ask her, what she feels when you touch her. At the same time say to her what you like and dont like. Do not be embarrassed to explain what exactly arouses you the most. Let her experiment with your body. Listen to your body and take pleasure of being with woman.
3. Make compliments to her while having sex. This way you will increase your girl-friends arousal. Some women prefer to hear rude and coarse words, but not endearing ones. In fact, its a rather common thing and do not consider this to be abnormal.
When you become more experienced you can try some other things. For instance, you can experience fisting. This word sounds rather threateningly, but there is nothing dangerous if you follow some tips. In fact, fisting is a simple inserting ones hand into a woman vagina. It took such name, because inserted hand naturally takes the form of fist.
Actually, the womans vaginal membrane is very flexible and can let pass the babys head through it. However, you should be careful while performing fisting. The partner should be very aroused and lubricated. Natural lubrication is not enough, thats why you should use a lot of lubricants. The process of fisting mustnt be hard or fast. Both partners should be patient and attentive. Actually to perform it in a proper way you need experience. Moreover, each act of fisting takes rather much time.
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Here are some tips for those who want to experience fisting:
1. You partner should be very aroused for vaginal walls to open as wide as its needed. Thats why you should spend much time performing everything she likes.
2. The main condition of fisting is using plenty of water based lube. You should use latex gloves in order to protect yourself and your partner from STDs.
3. Begin from inserting one or several fingers, you can perform clitoral stimulation at the same time.
4. Do not forget to communicate during fisting. She must stop you, if insertion is too intense. She must not feel any unpleasant sensations or suffer pain.
5. Try to cup your hand in such a way so as to form the smallest shape.
6. Your knuckles should face the bottom of your partners vagina. While inserting it youd better rotate your hand to avoid undesirable sensations. Rotating your wrist will help to pass pubic bone and get right inside her vagina. Act the same when you take your hand out.
7. When your fist is in vagina, rotate your wrist or move it slowly in and out. This will give a lot of pleasure to your girl-friend.
8. You can find out that your partner cant handle fisting. Respect her wishes and try something else. May be she is not enough ready for it. In this case you can postpone this experiment and get pleasure of other things.
The thing you can perform is tribadism. Actually, its the most common lesbian sex. This is a kind of stimulation, which arouses the majority of lesbians. In fact it involves rubbing genitals against each other. You can also rub your genitals against any part of your partners body.
But there is a problem: rubbing clitorises partners begin moving faster and forget that they can hurt each other.Thats why youd better choose some other positions, but not a missionary one. For instance, you can perform it kneeling against each other. Each partner reclines against pillow sticking out ones pubis. The other way of getting maximum pleasure is when one partner is straddling and lays on the table, but another one is standing between her legs. You can help yourself by opening your vulvar lips with your hands.
One more position, which we can recommend, is so-called scissors. In order to understand it better imagine two pairs of scissors. Afterwards interlock them in your mind. The same position usually is taken by lesbians who practice double scissors.
As you have understood, there are many methods of getting pleasure. Some of them are common; the others seem to be quite unusual. Anyway, only practicing and experimenting, youll determine what you like. Youll learn to listen to you body and to feel you partners desires. One thing that you shouldnt forget is your protection. Performing safer sex with constant partner youll decrease the risk of STDs transmission.
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