First date and flirting tips.

There are a lot of flirting tips for heterosexual couples. But its difficult to find good advices for homosexuals. How a woman can flirt with another woman? Does such kind of flirt differ much from the common one?

We think it is much easier to flirt with a woman than with a man. Actually, you can easier guess what exactly will attract the womans attention. Of course, there are not many problems when you are sure in her homosexual orientation. Anyway, you should realize that flirting is a kind of art. In most cases, it increases ones self-esteem and raises disposition.
All women like when somebody finds them attractive. Everybody knows that beginning stages of relationships are the most interesting and exiting. Thats why you should take flirting as a game.
We can offer you some flirting tips. Some of them you can find obvious and trivial, but it doesnt mean that they are wrong. So, lets discuss them:


1. Try to make visual contact
Eye contact is a part of body language. It was proved that about 70 per cent of information we receive and transmit by means of body language.
Eyes do play a great role in relationships. If you managed to catch her eyes, keep your look and smile at her. If she does the same, the half of matter is settled.

2. Bodily contact
So, you get acquainted and spend time together. When you seat nearby, move closer to her and observe her reaction on it. Try to put your hand on hers. But you should do it carefully and gently.

3. Pay compliments to her
Each woman likes compliments. They shouldnt sound corny and vulgar. Make such compliments that youd like to hear from her. But do not forget of womens high intuition. Your words should be honest not to sound as flattery.

4. Make her laugh
Being too serious you can scare her away. Women usually appreciate good sense of humor. Do not be afraid to be a bit funny.

5. You can offer her a drink or a cigarette, if she smokes.
In fact, you should pay to her as much attention as possible. But do not overplay your hand. Do not deprive her sense of freedom. She doesnt want to seem a victim.
So, you have managed to get acquainted and you feel that you want to continue your relationship.

After you have got acquainted with a woman, first date is the next important step.
Women usually prepare themselves for their first date especially carefully. They puzzle their brains over clothes to put on, behavior line to choose, etc.
In fact, you should remember that the words you say and the way you act, but not your appearance, will play the most important role.

Wed like to warn you about some topics which you should avoid discussing at first date.
Discussing previous girl-friend is the most objectionable subject. Your new girl-friend wants you to give attention to her. When mentioning your previous experience, you emphasize the importance of your past but not the very moment. Moreover, your words can hurt and alienate her. No phantoms of the past should stay between you and your new partner. You should neither praise nor abuse your former girl-friend. You must confide in no condition the way your former partner hurt you.

Its obvious that both you and you girl-friend should get pleasure of being together but not discussing any problems.

There are cases when you understand that you dont want to have the second date with this woman. The causes are different. In one case you were disappointed with your first date. You could also enjoy your date, but youve just understood that she is not a woman of your dream. You think of friendship with her, but not something more. It is rather difficult, but you have to say her about it.

In fact, the most difficult thing is to choose proper words and phrases. Actually, both partners should let each other know whether they are going to have the next date. Of course, you can say just Good night to each other, but it will be a kind of uncertainty. Thats why its better to use polite forms such as nice to meet you, Ive really enjoyed the evening but I have to go, etc. You shouldnt explain why you dont want her anymore. This kind of explanation can sound impolite and can hurt a woman. Just hint, that the first date was enough.

If you are going to continue a relationship with this person, give her know, that you are interested in her by saying I would like to see you again, It was a charming evening, hope the others will be the same, I look forward for your call, Hope to hear from you soon, etc.

Suppose that you are fond of this person and it seems to you that you feelings are mutual. How long should you wait before calling her? At first you decided that you would wait for her first call. Afterwards you came to the conclusion that you should send her a massage. Sometimes its easier for people to say something through the message than by words. Often people do not have the second date because they are both afraid to give a call. If the person you liked does not get in touch with you, take initiative in doing this.

Its senselessly to recommend any terms. Its better to trust your intuition. You can call her in two or three days or you can wait a week. Anyway, if you feel that this woman can be you part, its not wise to loose your chance.

Make your happiness by yourself!