Lesbians and Anal Sex

Anal sex is mostly associated with heterosexuals and gays, but why? Many lesbians as well as many heterosexual women enjoy anal sex or at least want to try it in order to enrich their sexual experience. Here are some frequently asked questions concerning anal sex as well as answers that will help you to learn more about anal sex and how lesbians can practice it.

Question 1. Do women enjoy anal sex? How many women prefer it?

Answer. Yes, many women do enjoy anal sex and some of them even prefer it. Among heterosexual women 8 percent prefer it rather than other kinds of sex and 30 percent have tried it at least once in their lives. Among lesbians this percentage is much bigger.

Some specialists say that many women enjoy anal sex psychologically as they enjoy everything that is related to a beloved person. However, practice shows that many women, especially lesbians who often have anal sex, get physical pleasure from the process and often achieve great orgasm.

Rectum contains a great deal of nerve endings. What is more in women the wall of the rectum and vaginal wall are the same. That is why rectum is a very sensitive erogenous zone in women.

Question 2. Can anal sex harm female health?

Answer. Anal sex as it is cannot cause any troubles related to health like piles,rectal fissure or fecal incontinence.

Question 3. I am a lesbian, and I want to try anal sex with my girlfriend, but I don't know how we can do that!

Answer. For this purpose you can use specially designed anal sex toys: butt plugs, anal probes, or anal stimulator. Also you can simply use your finger. In fact fingering is much more preferable for first timers.

Since anus does not have natural lubrication you should necessarily use a sex lubricant. Many women enjoy simultaneous vaginal and anal stimulation. Do try it!

Question 4. Can we use usual dildo that is designed for vaginal stimulation for anal sex?

Answer. Yes, you can if it does not seem to you too big. Anal sex toys are thin so that not to cause discomfort. Keep in mind that you must wash the dildo if you want to use it for vaginal stimulation after you have taken if off from the anus. Also you can put a condom on the dildo when you want to have anal stimulation and then you can take it off so that to enjoy vaginal stimulation.

The same can be done if you practice group sex and have only one sex toy: use condoms!

Question 5. My girlfriend complains about discomfort when we have anal sex. Is there a technique that helps to neutralize unpleasant sensations?

Answer. Always keep in mind that there can be no penetration until she is turned on. Anal sex does require foreplay! Do not forget to use a sex lubricant!

First anal play might be painful due to the fact that muscles of sphincter are stronger than vaginal muscles and they do tense when there is an attempt of penetration. How to overcome this obstacle?

This can be done trough preparing anus for anal sex. You should start with your little finger. After the anus gets used to it, you can insert there a bigger object, for instance a butt plug for beginners. Step by step you will learn to relax and to get in something bigger.

Also to overcome discomfort and pain you can use especial lubricant that contain desensitizing agents, for instance benzocaine.

Question 6. I have varicose veins in the rectum – can it be the result of anal sex?

Answer. Varicose veins is a disease that is conditioned by genetic characteristics of the vein system. This desiase simultaneously affects veins of legs. Anal sex when you have piles can cause traumas but by no means can cause varicose veins. Do not have anal sex if you have varicose veins in rectum.