Mutual masturbation
Masturbation is not only a secret you keep to yourself only, but may also become a satisfying experience between you and your lover. Mutual masturbation in this regard may bring you enormous pleasure of sharing something very intimate and learn what is best for both of you.
- Explore yourself
First of all, it is important for you to explore masturbation on your own first. Use your fantasy and knowledge to understand what works for you the best. Learn to feel comfortable with the expression of your own sexuality, admiring your body and it's natural urges. - Talk to each other
Introducing the idea of sharing masturbation with your lover can make you feel awkward or unusual. You may start by talking to your partner about your previous experience of masturbation: when she started masturbating and how she did it, how did she feel and tell about your story as well. This will make both of you feel more relaxed and comfortable about the topic and help in creating the necessary atmosphere. - Create the right atmosphere
Choose a right time and place when both of you won't be disturbed and will have plenty of time to open up to each other. Keep in mind that mutual masturbation can be even more intimate than any other practice. You both may need some time before you actually start exploring your partner's secrets. You both may start by watching an adult movie or with a relaxing foreplay.
Mutual masturbation tips
Masturbate openly
You may already feel more relaxed after you have watched your parter masturbating. Now it is your turn to show what is making you reach the desired big O. You may feel a bit uncomfortable exposing such intimate moments with your partner, so try to think about such experience as a way to become closer on intimate level.
Watch your partner masturbating
Watching your partner while she is pleasuring herself is a good way to learn what arouses her. Try to be supportive and encourage her with words, saying that you really want to see how she enjoys self-pleasuring and how you get turned on by this.
You may even embrace her and help her reach orgasm by caressing breasts, kissing or stroking her.
Masturbate in Sync
Masturbating together can be fun and exciting and you may even agree to play and see who reaches orgasm first. You may also think about rewarding each other with a one of the partners fulfilling the other's little pleasure task.
Use sex toys
Enhance your sessions using sex toys and showing each other how you prefer to satisfy your sexual needs. Nowadays you can find a great variety of sex toys: vibrators, dildos and other devices to make every sex session unique and helping you in your way to a powerful orgasm. You may later use sex toys
Incorporate your fantasy
Boost your sensations, talking to each other sexual fantasies while enjoying mutual masturbation. Tell your partner what you imagine while masturbating and encourage her to share her fantasies with you. This is not only a good way to enjoy more steamy sexual encounter but also a perfect way to get familiar with your partner's needs.
